<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719024566754743654.post8760683345285143342..comments</id><updated>2010-01-23T23:55:56.631-05:00</updated><category term='Concepts of Enlightenment'/><category term='Right Thinking'/><category term='Christ Consciousness'/><category term='Truth'/><category term='Reality'/><category term='Evolutionary Beliefs'/><category term='Separation'/><category term='Guilt'/><category term='Intimacy'/><category term='Integral Christianity'/><category term='Experience'/><category term='Victims'/><category term='Ego/self'/><category term='Finite and Infinite Players'/><category term='Conversations with Ego'/><category term='Hell'/><category term='Enlightened Teachers'/><category term='Deep Spirit'/><category term='Illusion'/><category term='Monetary Value'/><category term='Dream'/><category term='Mindstuff'/><category term='Suffering'/><category term='The Body'/><category term='Consciousness and Awareness'/><category term='God/Source'/><category term='Peace'/><category term='Ego Dynamics'/><category term='Spirituality'/><category term='Love and Fear'/><category term='Fully Engaged Enlightenment'/><category term='Death'/><category term='Inner Knowing'/><category term='Self and Others'/><category term='Surprise'/><category term='Integral Theory'/><title type='text'>Comments on The Peaceful Self.com: The Ego is Serious Business (except when playing i...</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.peacefulself.com/feeds/8760683345285143342/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/8760683345285143342/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.peacefulself.com/2010/01/ego-is-serious-business-except-when.html'/><author><name>mike</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10978313265796058909</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Tcq9eUS-ru8/SY2TUy4EI2I/AAAAAAAAARI/t6F0G3JIBRk/S220/Me+and+Avalon.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>18</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719024566754743654.post-3585598348216911521</id><published>2010-01-23T23:55:56.631-05:00</published><updated>2010-01-23T23:55:56.631-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Mike, you funny.</title><content type='html'>Mike, you funny.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/8760683345285143342/comments/default/3585598348216911521'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/8760683345285143342/comments/default/3585598348216911521'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.peacefulself.com/2010/01/ego-is-serious-business-except-when.html?showComment=1264308956631#c3585598348216911521' title=''/><author><name>No One In Particular</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13465987207757191972</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='07030695990938384939'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_nEiNWn67mVY/S1GyGd_PRKI/AAAAAAAAA4A/OLkyBJK1N-k/S220/blog+pic+18.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.peacefulself.com/2010/01/ego-is-serious-business-except-when.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719024566754743654.post-8760683345285143342' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/posts/default/8760683345285143342' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1722637262'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719024566754743654.post-1438541589588026379</id><published>2010-01-21T20:23:16.211-05:00</published><updated>2010-01-21T20:23:16.211-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Hey Barbara,

&amp;quot;Life is a game, play it.&amp;quot;...</title><content type='html'>Hey Barbara,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;quot;Life is a game, play it.&amp;quot; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Indeed. Don&amp;#39;t run from it, avoid it, escape it, seek to transcend it, etc, etc, etc.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Simply engage it...and play..&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks!&lt;br /&gt;mikeS</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/8760683345285143342/comments/default/1438541589588026379'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/8760683345285143342/comments/default/1438541589588026379'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.peacefulself.com/2010/01/ego-is-serious-business-except-when.html?showComment=1264123396211#c1438541589588026379' title=''/><author><name>MikeS</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10978313265796058909</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Tcq9eUS-ru8/SY2TUy4EI2I/AAAAAAAAARI/t6F0G3JIBRk/S220/Me+and+Avalon.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.peacefulself.com/2010/01/ego-is-serious-business-except-when.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719024566754743654.post-8760683345285143342' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/posts/default/8760683345285143342' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1638059053'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719024566754743654.post-3675719972905676271</id><published>2010-01-21T14:15:37.920-05:00</published><updated>2010-01-21T14:15:37.920-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Hi Mike

I&amp;#39;m not sure if this falls in or out ...</title><content type='html'>Hi Mike&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I&amp;#39;m not sure if this falls in or out of seriousness or in or out of a game, part of some sort of rule I follow, but as I read, I suddenly heard in my head an excerpt from a quote by Mother Theresa.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Life is a game, play it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The only rules I know absolutely influence me, without exception, are confusion, uncertainty, flux. But are those game rules, elements or only illusion?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Maybe I&amp;#39;m happiest wallowing in these words and just don&amp;#39;t know it...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Barbara</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/8760683345285143342/comments/default/3675719972905676271'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/8760683345285143342/comments/default/3675719972905676271'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.peacefulself.com/2010/01/ego-is-serious-business-except-when.html?showComment=1264101337920#c3675719972905676271' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.peacefulself.com/2010/01/ego-is-serious-business-except-when.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719024566754743654.post-8760683345285143342' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/posts/default/8760683345285143342' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-972662072'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719024566754743654.post-652585743800913503</id><published>2010-01-21T07:10:27.491-05:00</published><updated>2010-01-21T07:10:27.491-05:00</updated><title type='text'>No One,

No I don&amp;#39;t! You&amp;#39;re wrong!

(teehe...</title><content type='html'>No One,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;No I don&amp;#39;t! You&amp;#39;re wrong!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(teehee)&lt;br /&gt;mikeS</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/8760683345285143342/comments/default/652585743800913503'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/8760683345285143342/comments/default/652585743800913503'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.peacefulself.com/2010/01/ego-is-serious-business-except-when.html?showComment=1264075827491#c652585743800913503' title=''/><author><name>MikeS</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10978313265796058909</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Tcq9eUS-ru8/SY2TUy4EI2I/AAAAAAAAARI/t6F0G3JIBRk/S220/Me+and+Avalon.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.peacefulself.com/2010/01/ego-is-serious-business-except-when.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719024566754743654.post-8760683345285143342' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/posts/default/8760683345285143342' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1638059053'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719024566754743654.post-6809165277539588536</id><published>2010-01-21T07:09:34.831-05:00</published><updated>2010-01-21T07:09:34.831-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Hey Mr. Unicorn!

Thanks for stoppin&amp;#39; by.

Yes...</title><content type='html'>Hey Mr. Unicorn!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks for stoppin&amp;#39; by.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yes...we play with rules here.&lt;br /&gt;mikeS</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/8760683345285143342/comments/default/6809165277539588536'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/8760683345285143342/comments/default/6809165277539588536'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.peacefulself.com/2010/01/ego-is-serious-business-except-when.html?showComment=1264075774831#c6809165277539588536' title=''/><author><name>MikeS</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10978313265796058909</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Tcq9eUS-ru8/SY2TUy4EI2I/AAAAAAAAARI/t6F0G3JIBRk/S220/Me+and+Avalon.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.peacefulself.com/2010/01/ego-is-serious-business-except-when.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719024566754743654.post-8760683345285143342' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/posts/default/8760683345285143342' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1638059053'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719024566754743654.post-3375001635002131622</id><published>2010-01-21T05:43:11.091-05:00</published><updated>2010-01-21T05:43:11.091-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Everything I comment, you nitpick it...sparring.</title><content type='html'>Everything I comment, you nitpick it...sparring.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/8760683345285143342/comments/default/3375001635002131622'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/8760683345285143342/comments/default/3375001635002131622'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.peacefulself.com/2010/01/ego-is-serious-business-except-when.html?showComment=1264070591091#c3375001635002131622' title=''/><author><name>No One In Particular</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13465987207757191972</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='07030695990938384939'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_nEiNWn67mVY/S1GyGd_PRKI/AAAAAAAAA4A/OLkyBJK1N-k/S220/blog+pic+18.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.peacefulself.com/2010/01/ego-is-serious-business-except-when.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719024566754743654.post-8760683345285143342' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/posts/default/8760683345285143342' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1722637262'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719024566754743654.post-9156132563232209923</id><published>2010-01-20T18:08:50.844-05:00</published><updated>2010-01-20T18:08:50.844-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Ah, a player after my own evergreen Heart! :-) Rul...</title><content type='html'>Ah, a player after my own evergreen Heart! :-) Rules are for games, computers, corporations, and other dead things. Life has no rules.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;quot;Hell, there are no rules around here; we&amp;#39;re trying to accomplish something!&amp;quot; Thomas Edison.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/8760683345285143342/comments/default/9156132563232209923'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/8760683345285143342/comments/default/9156132563232209923'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.peacefulself.com/2010/01/ego-is-serious-business-except-when.html?showComment=1264028930844#c9156132563232209923' title=''/><author><name>The Barking Unicorn</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01080937315323189497</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_EIpa4CiEVso/SrI3Yw2QncI/AAAAAAAAAAM/mxUgvp2jvBQ/S220/De_Monocerote.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.peacefulself.com/2010/01/ego-is-serious-business-except-when.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719024566754743654.post-8760683345285143342' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/posts/default/8760683345285143342' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-151875355'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719024566754743654.post-252495310237232399</id><published>2010-01-18T21:17:34.632-05:00</published><updated>2010-01-18T21:17:34.632-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I have to work on the &amp;quot;merely&amp;quot;...because...</title><content type='html'>I have to work on the &amp;quot;merely&amp;quot;...because I seem to have a limit.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ha! Indeed...it may not be so &amp;#39;merely&amp;#39; as I make it seem. I too struggle with limits.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;quot;I am beginning to see the value in plucking the strings of the web, if only to discover those rules in myself that I may not be aware of in suspecting the rules of the other. Just to see where it might go might be a thing of discovery. But then there is the limit factor.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yes, this can lead to surprising results and aid in pressing the limits out a bit farther each time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;quot;Again, the road to discovering one&amp;#39;s own rules as aforementioned is an adventure in itself.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;True, and I feel the adventure is in the engagement and gradually, at ones own pace, we see the rules for what they are and become surprisingly free of them in that &amp;#39;seeing.&amp;#39;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks!&lt;br /&gt;mikeS</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/8760683345285143342/comments/default/252495310237232399'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/8760683345285143342/comments/default/252495310237232399'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.peacefulself.com/2010/01/ego-is-serious-business-except-when.html?showComment=1263867454632#c252495310237232399' title=''/><author><name>MikeS</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10978313265796058909</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Tcq9eUS-ru8/SY2TUy4EI2I/AAAAAAAAARI/t6F0G3JIBRk/S220/Me+and+Avalon.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.peacefulself.com/2010/01/ego-is-serious-business-except-when.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719024566754743654.post-8760683345285143342' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/posts/default/8760683345285143342' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1638059053'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719024566754743654.post-5964907336141246056</id><published>2010-01-18T21:09:32.512-05:00</published><updated>2010-01-18T21:09:32.512-05:00</updated><title type='text'>&amp;quot;Lovely to spar with you,&amp;quot;

&amp;quot;Spar&amp;q...</title><content type='html'>&amp;quot;Lovely to spar with you,&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;quot;Spar&amp;quot;???&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Well now... that&amp;#39;s an interesting take on our discussions...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hmmmm....&lt;br /&gt;mikeS</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/8760683345285143342/comments/default/5964907336141246056'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/8760683345285143342/comments/default/5964907336141246056'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.peacefulself.com/2010/01/ego-is-serious-business-except-when.html?showComment=1263866972512#c5964907336141246056' title=''/><author><name>MikeS</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10978313265796058909</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Tcq9eUS-ru8/SY2TUy4EI2I/AAAAAAAAARI/t6F0G3JIBRk/S220/Me+and+Avalon.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.peacefulself.com/2010/01/ego-is-serious-business-except-when.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719024566754743654.post-8760683345285143342' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/posts/default/8760683345285143342' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1638059053'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719024566754743654.post-6337429632905858568</id><published>2010-01-18T19:03:10.137-05:00</published><updated>2010-01-18T19:03:10.137-05:00</updated><title type='text'>&amp;quot;an infinite player merely accepts spiders as...</title><content type='html'>&amp;quot;an infinite player merely accepts spiders as part of the game.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sane and rational, indeed.  I have to work on the &amp;quot;merely&amp;quot;...because I seem to have a limit.  I wonder if a rule is the same as a limit, or if B as in B and S as in S is an entirely  separate thing from the rule factor.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;quot;Have you ever played with spiders?&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I&amp;#39;d have to admit to setting up the chess board twice or thrice, but also confess to just letting the game pass.  The reasons for the pass are multi-faceted; however, I am beginning to see the value in plucking the strings of the web, if only to discover those rules in myself that I may not be aware of in suspecting the rules of the other.  Just to see where it might go might be a thing of discovery.  But then there is the limit factor.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;quot;There will always be those who insist we play by certain rules. In not taking the rules seriously, infinite players are not trapped by the rules and those not trapped by the rules have an easier time changing the rules.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I like that. Again, the road to discovering one&amp;#39;s own rules as aforementioned is an adventure in itself.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Appreciations always, Mike, and that&amp;#39;s the truth, plain and simple.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Blessings,&lt;br /&gt;Nahnni</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/8760683345285143342/comments/default/6337429632905858568'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/8760683345285143342/comments/default/6337429632905858568'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.peacefulself.com/2010/01/ego-is-serious-business-except-when.html?showComment=1263859390137#c6337429632905858568' title=''/><author><name>Mynahnni</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10423858210960669811</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='10146061028022627719'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_j8sO__0hcZM/StQPby1J8CI/AAAAAAAAACA/UX4pRabU-HI/S220/waterhouse+sketch.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.peacefulself.com/2010/01/ego-is-serious-business-except-when.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719024566754743654.post-8760683345285143342' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/posts/default/8760683345285143342' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1806972440'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719024566754743654.post-6761912993086289089</id><published>2010-01-18T17:40:28.931-05:00</published><updated>2010-01-18T17:40:28.931-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Yes...truth is relative, and all that...

Lovely t...</title><content type='html'>Yes...truth is relative, and all that...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Lovely to spar with you, as intimately as one can get in this electronic forum.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Love, Suzanne</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/8760683345285143342/comments/default/6761912993086289089'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/8760683345285143342/comments/default/6761912993086289089'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.peacefulself.com/2010/01/ego-is-serious-business-except-when.html?showComment=1263854428931#c6761912993086289089' title=''/><author><name>No One In Particular</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13465987207757191972</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='07030695990938384939'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_nEiNWn67mVY/S1GyGd_PRKI/AAAAAAAAA4A/OLkyBJK1N-k/S220/blog+pic+18.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.peacefulself.com/2010/01/ego-is-serious-business-except-when.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719024566754743654.post-8760683345285143342' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/posts/default/8760683345285143342' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1722637262'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719024566754743654.post-7725058656898866196</id><published>2010-01-18T12:12:43.680-05:00</published><updated>2010-01-18T12:12:43.680-05:00</updated><title type='text'>No One,

Yes... in Hegelian terms (thesis, antithe...</title><content type='html'>No One,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yes... in Hegelian terms (thesis, antithesis and synthesis)we tend to seek for a synthesis. However, if the game is infinite, synthesis is only another thesis or antithesis.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Only some think they have found the ultimate synthesis or a &amp;quot;theory of everything.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(those folks don&amp;#39;t like me too much...)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Nevertheless, I agree we are &amp;quot;doing well&amp;quot; and will probably do well even when we aren&amp;#39;t!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks!&lt;br /&gt;mikeS</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/8760683345285143342/comments/default/7725058656898866196'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/8760683345285143342/comments/default/7725058656898866196'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.peacefulself.com/2010/01/ego-is-serious-business-except-when.html?showComment=1263834763680#c7725058656898866196' title=''/><author><name>MikeS</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10978313265796058909</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Tcq9eUS-ru8/SY2TUy4EI2I/AAAAAAAAARI/t6F0G3JIBRk/S220/Me+and+Avalon.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.peacefulself.com/2010/01/ego-is-serious-business-except-when.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719024566754743654.post-8760683345285143342' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/posts/default/8760683345285143342' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1638059053'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719024566754743654.post-1442226728237338443</id><published>2010-01-18T06:03:21.958-05:00</published><updated>2010-01-18T06:03:21.958-05:00</updated><title type='text'>BTW it occurs to me, reading some of the commentar...</title><content type='html'>BTW it occurs to me, reading some of the commentary exchanges, that we are a bit stuck in concepts (necessarily so) but are employing the dialectical method to reveal the concepts closest to the truth.  Or what we seem to think is the truth!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I think we&amp;#39;re doing well.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/8760683345285143342/comments/default/1442226728237338443'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/8760683345285143342/comments/default/1442226728237338443'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.peacefulself.com/2010/01/ego-is-serious-business-except-when.html?showComment=1263812601958#c1442226728237338443' title=''/><author><name>No One In Particular</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13465987207757191972</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='07030695990938384939'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_nEiNWn67mVY/S1GyGd_PRKI/AAAAAAAAA4A/OLkyBJK1N-k/S220/blog+pic+18.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.peacefulself.com/2010/01/ego-is-serious-business-except-when.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719024566754743654.post-8760683345285143342' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/posts/default/8760683345285143342' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1722637262'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719024566754743654.post-3280091328305613636</id><published>2010-01-18T05:46:45.430-05:00</published><updated>2010-01-18T05:46:45.430-05:00</updated><title type='text'>The illusion of the ego can be taken extraordinari...</title><content type='html'>The illusion of the ego can be taken extraordinarily seriously...by no one!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/8760683345285143342/comments/default/3280091328305613636'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/8760683345285143342/comments/default/3280091328305613636'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.peacefulself.com/2010/01/ego-is-serious-business-except-when.html?showComment=1263811605430#c3280091328305613636' title=''/><author><name>No One In Particular</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13465987207757191972</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='07030695990938384939'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_nEiNWn67mVY/S1GyGd_PRKI/AAAAAAAAA4A/OLkyBJK1N-k/S220/blog+pic+18.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.peacefulself.com/2010/01/ego-is-serious-business-except-when.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719024566754743654.post-8760683345285143342' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/posts/default/8760683345285143342' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1722637262'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719024566754743654.post-7018348371207720043</id><published>2010-01-17T20:50:37.559-05:00</published><updated>2010-01-17T20:50:37.559-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Nahnni,

&amp;quot;So, whether one is an infinite play...</title><content type='html'>Nahnni,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;quot;So, whether one is an infinite player or a finite player, that spider is pesky. Maybe it is a rule spider...or an ego spider, but its some kind of spider.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Indeed. Yet, an infinite player merely accepts spiders as part of the game. Have you ever played with spiders? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;quot;It&amp;#39;s enlivening to bring on more players, unless they bring their own rulebook and insist you now play by the new rules. And that&amp;#39;s the changing dynamic...who will come with the book of plays and who will come unobstructed by the acts and scenes.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;True, we all have our dramas to play out, but recognizing we choose to play puts a new twist on the nature of the games. Many believe that they must play and play by the rules. There will always be those who insist we play by certain rules. In not taking the rules seriously, infinite players are not trapped by the rules and those not trapped by the rules have an easier time changing the rules.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In my humble opinion...&lt;br /&gt;mikeS</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/8760683345285143342/comments/default/7018348371207720043'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/8760683345285143342/comments/default/7018348371207720043'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.peacefulself.com/2010/01/ego-is-serious-business-except-when.html?showComment=1263779437559#c7018348371207720043' title=''/><author><name>MikeS</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10978313265796058909</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Tcq9eUS-ru8/SY2TUy4EI2I/AAAAAAAAARI/t6F0G3JIBRk/S220/Me+and+Avalon.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.peacefulself.com/2010/01/ego-is-serious-business-except-when.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719024566754743654.post-8760683345285143342' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/posts/default/8760683345285143342' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1638059053'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719024566754743654.post-6819886413221141079</id><published>2010-01-17T20:41:53.877-05:00</published><updated>2010-01-17T20:41:53.877-05:00</updated><title type='text'>&amp;quot;Not taking it all seriously is easy when the...</title><content type='html'>&amp;quot;Not taking it all seriously is easy when there isn&amp;#39;t anyone who needs validation from the outcome of the game.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But... &amp;quot;there isn&amp;#39;t anyone who needs validation from the outcome of the game.&amp;quot; Right?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Isn&amp;#39;t that what you teach?&lt;br /&gt;mikeS</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/8760683345285143342/comments/default/6819886413221141079'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/8760683345285143342/comments/default/6819886413221141079'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.peacefulself.com/2010/01/ego-is-serious-business-except-when.html?showComment=1263778913877#c6819886413221141079' title=''/><author><name>MikeS</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10978313265796058909</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Tcq9eUS-ru8/SY2TUy4EI2I/AAAAAAAAARI/t6F0G3JIBRk/S220/Me+and+Avalon.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.peacefulself.com/2010/01/ego-is-serious-business-except-when.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719024566754743654.post-8760683345285143342' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/posts/default/8760683345285143342' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1638059053'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719024566754743654.post-260394002087742145</id><published>2010-01-17T01:27:44.121-05:00</published><updated>2010-01-17T01:27:44.121-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Did you ever have an infinite dream, no plot, just...</title><content type='html'>Did you ever have an infinite dream, no plot, just kind of stepping along and then every so often it seems there is a spider. Then you start seeing the spider everywhere you go, and suddenly, the dream becomes finite because that spider has kind of eclipsed the dream.  Maybe that spider brings some friends, and they all sort of develop a coup in your dream...then you wake up from the dream with a bit of a sigh and think to yourself, wow, what was THAT all about?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The moral of the dream seems to be that no matter where you sit, a spider might just drop into your porridge.  So, whether one is an infinite player or a finite player, that spider is pesky.  Maybe it is a rule spider...or an ego spider, but its some kind of spider.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That&amp;#39;s when you have to take a moment to consider what it is you are taking seriously, because the spiders are starting to get to you and that poses a whole new question.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It&amp;#39;s enlivening to bring on more players, unless they bring their own rulebook and insist you now play by the new rules.  And that&amp;#39;s the changing dynamic...who will come with the book of plays and who will come unobstructed by the acts and scenes.   I&amp;#39;m still trying to decide if transformation really does come from unsettling change...to change, therefore, into something transforming.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Good post, Mike.  Something to think about, especially when one is contemplating if one has rules one is not even aware of.  I really did dream of a spider turning into spiders and I wonder what they mirror? Perhaps they indicate the test of strength and perseverence...perhaps they mean just walk on by because at some point, you are just going to run into another one.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Blessings,&lt;br /&gt;Nahnni</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/8760683345285143342/comments/default/260394002087742145'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/8760683345285143342/comments/default/260394002087742145'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.peacefulself.com/2010/01/ego-is-serious-business-except-when.html?showComment=1263709664121#c260394002087742145' title=''/><author><name>Nahnni</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.peacefulself.com/2010/01/ego-is-serious-business-except-when.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719024566754743654.post-8760683345285143342' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/posts/default/8760683345285143342' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-882498691'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719024566754743654.post-6585031108179399655</id><published>2010-01-16T17:32:40.690-05:00</published><updated>2010-01-16T17:32:40.690-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Ah, so that&amp;#39;s what you were on about!

Lovely ...</title><content type='html'>Ah, so that&amp;#39;s what you were on about!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Lovely set of concepts.  Makes a lot of sense.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Not taking it all seriously is easy when there isn&amp;#39;t anyone who needs validation from the outcome of the game.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Love to you Mike - Suzanne</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/8760683345285143342/comments/default/6585031108179399655'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/8760683345285143342/comments/default/6585031108179399655'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.peacefulself.com/2010/01/ego-is-serious-business-except-when.html?showComment=1263681160690#c6585031108179399655' title=''/><author><name>No One In Particular</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13465987207757191972</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='07030695990938384939'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_nEiNWn67mVY/S1GyGd_PRKI/AAAAAAAAA4A/OLkyBJK1N-k/S220/blog+pic+18.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.peacefulself.com/2010/01/ego-is-serious-business-except-when.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719024566754743654.post-8760683345285143342' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3719024566754743654/posts/default/8760683345285143342' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1722637262'/></entry></feed>
